Posts Tagged ‘Dominance and submission’


Having a few years under my belt as a Pro Domme, I relish a  D/s session where the power exchange plays out like a perfect symphony. There is something other worldly when that non vanilla energy starts to permeate the room and I am able to orchestrate the session with the kind of power that brings about both Dom & sub space.

In that space, the vanilla world is forgotten and whatever else may of ailed either of us prior to the session has long been forgotten. The spontaneous creativity that pours out of Me in this type of session never ceases to amaze Me. Be it the verbalization that can accompany a fun role playing scenario and or a particular bondage tie & position that I restrict the sub in.

Or be it the top executive who’s wish it is to be My little sissy slut. Upon arrival, his type A personality has a hard time surrendering to anything larger than himself. I am familiar with this scene. And after commanding  him out of his suit & tie, and adorning him with the appropriate attire, a more submissive attitude starts to blossom.  Panties, stockings,  just the right shade of lipstick, wig and a new name, of my choosing  she suddenly becomes the submissive of My Realm. The power exchange has started and the fun begins!

A great energy exchange isn’t necessarily contingent upon the type of scene; instead it is a synergy between the Domme and her subject. Don’t get me wrong the scene can certainly enhance a great energy exchange but it really is contingent upon the dance between the two. The Domme should establish her Dominance and be inspired to lead her subject into sub space. When this happens, living in the moment becomes a reality. The beauty of course being that  the mind and body exist only in the present.

As a slave once said long ago, a great session can cure everything but cancer. I wickedly, concur.

M. Chase